Edited as I reacted "emotionally". Edited again because of poor grammar.
Whom am
misleading? Are you suggesting that I'm leading other readers astray or away from proper thinking?
I would agree that using the word
understanding in the case of responsibliity for his actions is complex, but not
misleading.
Perhaps this is what you mean: that Tom's thinking--or the kind of thinking he represents is too complex, because of our concepts of evil, moral responsiblity, right and wrong to dismiss his thinking as "simple understanding". I would agree that one should "qualify" the assesment, but I don't see where I have
not attempted to do this.
In so much that Tom is responsible for his actions he
understands the difference between right or wrong. In so much that he has shown the ability to recognize when his behavior is inappropriate and makes successful attempts to either hide or change the behavior, he has the "ability" to refrain from giving in to his predatory impulses.
He is not delusional or brain damaged.
He is intelligent and capable of hearing, studying, and understanding complex ideas, like morals and how they are used.
His actions are considered morally "evil" and threaten others, therefore making his actions "anti-social" but not really "insane".
The difference between someone like Tom and ourselves is not so much our understanding, but how we think, how we process knowledge, how we use it.
I would agree with you that with Snape and Lily, he might not have
understood why anyone would would be disgusted that Snape wanted to save Lily, but not James and Harry. Snape didn't love James and Harry: why should he care if Voldemort got rid of them, especially as they were a threat to Voldemort, therefore his Death Eaters?
And as Lily choose to die, Tom possibly doesn't understand why Snape would continue to "want" Lily as it is clear she didn't want him.
But that doesn't mean Tom didn't
understand that it was "wrong" or criminal to invade James and Lily's house. But for for him invading the house was a matter of his survival, and he certainly held his survival in higher esteem that morales.
This almost goes back to the Melville's exploration of "evil" with
Billy Budd, a character who is socially innocent, therefore, in Melville's mind doesn't
understand that he has committed a murder even though he is hanged for it.
But Tom is not socially ignorant or innocent. He doesn't want to die, he holds his survival higher than any othe impulse. But he "understands" society enough that he is able to attend school, he holds down a job, he cultivates frienships and support from others and even pretends to give support to others. He understands enough that he knows, what ever his motivation that he must hide his darker nature. He understands the rules, but he understands them
as a predator. His thinking is so different than ours that he could be another species. But he is not sick or delusional, like a person with a mental illness. He would not respond to "treatment". He would respond however, to the threat of incarcenration or execution. Then he might become like a couple of high profile prisnors and learn to work the system from within prsion.
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The thing is that not only did Tom not explore those other, deeper layers of emotions, he also did not experience them himself
Yet, there is nothing to indicate that Tom lacked the ability to love--he loved power, his life, he loved recognition. He made friends, and speaks of them with affection. Their "worship" of him mattered. His comments about his mother, indicates he had questions, perhaps even a longing for a parent. He killed his father and grandparents when they rejected him.
Tom speaks with "affection" of Snape, to Nagini and Bellatrix, and there is no reason to think he didn't feel the same detached and costly "affection" for others.
He calls the Death Eaters his true family, and is furious that they didn't care enough for him to seek him out. He complains that Peter service is not out of loyalty or devotion, and he geniune seems to enjoy their worship of him.
Tom is a predator in the purest sense of the word. Because the majority of the people in the Muggle and Wizard world had "morals" and had a higher regard for our basic instincts in consideration of others, they became his prey.
All of his energies are focused on his survival, his dominance of others, his control of his world and the environment around him, his pleasure, avoidance of pain and discomfort.
If Tom lived in a society and time where it persmissable for the the most powerful person to control others and have the pick of of the best he wants, he would not seem anti-social, but humanity has developed societies that in some respects holds love as compassion, mercy, surrender, kindness in great esteem and for the most part, our thinking, learning and emotional patterns have evolved to match these higher concepts about our impulses and instincts.
But think of the journey humankind has made, and the cost of the lessons, cost we still pay as there is oppression and genocide, and curruption in the world still. We are not quite two hundred years away from the thinking that some of us had the right to enslave and dominate others because of difference in color, culture, race and sex, in fact there are too many of us that think that way.